完美童话？Fairy tales, anyone?

刚出席了中学好友的婚礼，简单、庄重。二十一世纪里，坐在电脑前的你是否还相信童话的存在？是否还相信万物的唯一主宰正在为你我谱写一篇完美的爱情故事？有人问过我，在主里谈恋爱，为什么那么辛苦？好友的一席话让我茅塞顿开，他感谢他的妻子在爱他的几年里，让他看到了主的爱。

完美不代表瑕疵的缺席，不意味过程中少了大大小小的斗嘴、闹别扭、眼泪等；我的定义在于故事和你情窦初开所想象非常相像。

从初院到当兵到上大学，全程8年。好友在毕业的两个月后和爱人立下婚约，承诺与其长相厮守直到天父召唤回家。席下的我有所感触 ^_^ 好友的妻子是他的初恋，在他的感谢词里，我深受感动。

我相信童话仍然存在，我相信主所谱写的恋曲会胜过所有得奖的爱情故事；我深信无论是在主里或主外，只要两人互信互爱，相辅相成，无私地爱对方，不管再艰难的考验，两人必能一起通过。我在好友的爱情故事里看到了……

I loved to attend weddings, to witness the two individuals making a convenant to love one another and live life together. The joy is unspeakable. This wedding today is somewhat different, the wife of my friend's is his first and last girlfriend :)
Am amazed at the work of God, how he brought the two of them together and till today. Am amazed at the words of God, who whispered as my friend gave thanks to all the people, to his wife saying " thank you for loving me and being Christlike in your love for me even when i was a prebeliever." Awesome! Christlikeness, the key to all end of agonising relationships, the end to our-selves, the beginning of a beautiful love story shared by two individuals.

Knowing Christ or not, it matters that when two are in a relationship to love one another selflessly, to give and bless the other so that each other's love tank is filled to the brim. Perfect love story does not mean the absence of quarrels, fights or arguments, to me, it simply means that the reality of it is close to what i imagined it to be when i was young. I think, my friend, had the perfect love story :)

p/s: Congratulations, Bud (if u ever see this)