the 'GONG' ones... :)

think the title itself will bring some smiles to some of the faces of my good frens.. cos they were part of this discussion here and there since last week over cuppas sessions.

Yes! the 'gong' ones... this term was brought up again for the umpteenth time this week, so decided to blog it down. Hahaha!!! hopefully it wil spark up some discussion over ur own cuppas as u read on...

Okie! who r the 'gong' ones?? Answer the following qns honestly, n u will know! For guys.. u will know urself, for gals.. find out for urself which conclusion would u vote for.

1. Fresh flowers vs. Plastic flowers --- the issue of practicality and romanticism
(Guys: Would u prefer to give fresh flowers or plastic flowers to the ladies?)
(Ladies: Would u prefer receiving fresh flowers or plastic ones? )

2. Little pleasant surprises everyday vs Big Nice surprises once in a blue moon --- the issue of keeping the passion alive vs not watering down the element of surprise or set too high a standard for oneself to upkeep)
(Guys/ Ladies: The former or latter?)

3.Told to do something nice vs Thought of doing something nice --- the issue of no guessing game vs sensitivity
(Guys: Do u prefer to be told what r the nice things ur ladies would like u to do or u will take the initiative to display ur gentlemen side?)
(Ladies: Do u like to have to tell everytime or like to have the guys do some nice things or say nice things truthfully of cos, without delivery on demand?)

This is specifically for all the princesses out there!!!!!
4.Suave vs Gong --- the issue of 花心大萝卜(casanova) vs 忠厚老实 (honest and very decent)
(Ladies! which one?)

Hahah!! before all my darling bros start to clobber me.. i must put a disclaimer.. these are jus some of the interesting things that were exchanged over cuppas, nothing personal...n they r not exhaustive DEFINITELY not meant to put down anyone cos its a no answer for this question, similar to the chicken and egg qn. No one can say for definite what kind they really want....remember, gals are fickle minded!! heee.. yes, thats from me! Lisa! :)

Plus! both the gongs and suaves have their pros and cons that gals love n hate, likewise we gals have our sides which u guys out there love and hate at the same time. This is merely for some laffs in this stressful world and topic for discussion when u r out of topics to talk about with some of ur frens.

Have fun! as for me? a qn remains to be answered : can the gongs really be educated or the suaves un-tameable? hmm.. maybe gals jus ask too much...kekeke